Taking eyes-open pictures at 6:45 in the morning is apparently not my forte. This is what I wore last week when I headed out for a campus visit to my top choice grad school. Apparently they liked what they saw, as I was accepted this morning! Pretty darn happy here in alltumbledown world. It is possible that I'm currently sitting at my desk, listening to 80's pop radio on Pandora and snacking on red hots (while being incredibly productive, of course.)
* navy sheath dress-- Target * grey grandpa cardigan-- H&M * black tights-- Calvin Klein * black flats-- Kenzi Girl * western belt-- Goodwill Outlet * camo headband-- H&M *
As with all my campus visits, I was looking for a relaxed but professional look. I picked one out, and while getting dressed at 6 AM, threw that look on the floor and went with this instead. And this is why I don't plan my outfits in advance.
And now, a bit on my grad school saga, aka what has been consuming my life for the past several months. In history (and most humanities fields), you aren't just applying to a department, but rather to work with specific professors studying your time period/theme. Given my interests, that narrowed the field down to about 15 schools across the country. Add to the mix a husband in med school who needs to apply to residencies in less than a year and applying as an Orthodox Jew with a need for an observant community (synagogue, access to kosher food) nearby. Oh, and these programs accept maybe one person per year in my particular field.
Hello, challenge.
I ultimately applied to 8 schools, all for the PhD track. I was initially approached by one of my top two choices with an unofficial offer from a professor, but when results came out a few weeks ago, my subfield was denied a spot. Ugh, funding. I received several acceptances, but most of the cities would have been impossible this coming year (way too far to travel back and forth to see hubs), and had few residency opportunities for next year, meaning there was a chance that we'd be separated for the duration of residency. While these programs are excellent, I like my husband a bit too much for that. I also received an invitation to visit what had been up there with the first school as my top choice for a visiting day, pre-acceptance. I knew it meant my chances for getting in were high, but that I was not guaranteed a spot. Despite the visit day being on a Friday, I made sure to attend for as much of the day as I could before heading back for Shabbat.
This morning, I headed to work as usual. Sat down at my desk, opened up gmail, and was greeted by an email that read:
I am delighted to inform you that the Graduate Committee of the Department of History at [top choice] with the approval of our Associate Dean for Graduate Studies, has selected you for admission to our Ph.D. program beginning in Fall 2011. You are part of a very talented group of students, chosen from an applicant pool of almost 400 candidates.
Jaw drops. Crazed waving of hands and jumping up and down ensues. Thankfully, I was alone in the office at the time so nobody saw me getting my groove on.
Now, top choice is not in New York , but it is close enough that I'll be able to head back and spend weekends with hubs. While that situation isn't ideal, I do think it will be good practice for residency. The city I'll be moving to has a good amount of residency options for hubs, so hopefully our commuter relationship will not last longer than a year. After being burned by other top choice a few weeks ago, I'm waiting to receive official letter in the mail before informing other programs/giving notice at work, but it looks like I am heading for some new adventures come fall!



20 comments:
Congratulations!! That's very exciting and I hope everything works out the way you guys want it to!
Congratulations!!! So glad you ended up with a program not too far from the city and with options for the husband! P.S. I love the dress from Target... I keep seeing so many people with cute dresses from there and yet, whenever I go I don't see anything. :-(
Congratulations from a fellow Barnard grad / current history Ph.D. student and longtime lurker. I remember this process and wish you the best next year!
Thanks for coming out of lurkdom! And so nice to know strong and independent Barnard women are reading.
Congratulations! Oh man, the grad school process is tough stuff. My best friend has been working her bum off with applications and got news that she was turned down by each of her top two choices - really sad news. There just aren't enough spots out there for the people who deserve them. Anyway, not to be a bummer, but I really know (in a secondhand way =) how tough it is to find a place, so kudos to you for all of your hard work!
"One belt to rule them all" = my new motto
Congratulations on being accepted!
First of all, congrats! And I love the collar on that dress.
Second of all, my boyfriend's waiting to hear back from some PhD programs right now too, so I feel your pain. Also, we had a "commuter relationship" (love that term!) for about a year, and made it through OK. It really wasn't that bad after awhile, actually. I'm sure everything will work out great.
Congratulations on your acceptance! I love the dress- can't wait til we get Target in Canada :)
Congratulations! Your hard work as paid off, and I hope you have an amazing time.
My dude and I live 2 hours away from each other, and commute to visit on the weekends. It's tough, but definitely do-able. He's moving to Singapore in the summer, however, so it'll be a bit trickier then...
Congratulations!
That is great news. I hope your husband finds a place close by next year.
congrats and b'hatzlacha!!!! so exciting to hear:)
I have the opposite problem- go into Target for something small, like paper plates. Walk out with 3 dresses and 4 pr tights. Whoops.
Singapore... ouch. When I hear stories like this, it makes our future distance seem trivial. But we've lived together for 2.5 years now, so this will be a huge change for us.
Good luck to your bf! I don't envy the sig other in this process at all. At least I know I'll be repaid next year waiting for match day.
Yaaaaaaaaaay congratulations! That's fantastic! With a belt one can accomplish anything.
Oy. I have to say, that was my worst fear, but it does seem (through my incessant stalking of grad school forums) that second-time applicants have even better success than first timers. Theyre better prepared for the process, have made contacts already, beefed up the parts of their application that needed work.. so best of luck to her next year!
Congratulations! I am about to finish up my terminal MA in history and am taking time off to properly research PhD programs and prepare applications. I would love if you chronicled some of your upcoming changes (moving, commuter-relationships, school) on here too! I bet it would be fascinating.
Great outfit!
Amazing amazing congratulations! Though really, how could they turn you down with such a perfectly tuned outfit?
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